My stepfather's sister lives in Wilmington, right where it's supposed to hit. He tried to call earlier and he's not getting an answer, but I think they could be evacuating. She's pretty smart, so I'm reasonably sure she'll do the right thing and leave if they say she should, though Wilmington is only under a voluntary evacuation order, presently.
My brother lives about 50 miles southwest of Richmond, VA, but since the path has changed I think he'll be just fine.