Thanks for the comments, I guess i didn't state my question very well, What i meant was if there was a way to know how many emails the server saw i was sending i could compare with what I was sending and i would know if someone was using my mail for spamming just a check and balance thing, the way it is now i would not know unless i get blocked out of sending emails, It started yesterday AOL sent me a 5.7.1 Bounce message when I tried to send my brother an email I tried just a test message just to make sure the content of the email wasn't the problem and still got the same message.