1. This isn't a support section.
2. Please watch the language.
3. Only devices that can utilize the 5GHz band will show the 5GHz WiFi as a connection option. Many don't support it.
Dave, if it doesn't show, it's because the device you're using doesn't have the capability to detect the 5Ghz radio, like @GabeU said.
There are gizmos out there that you can buy that you can plug into the device to make it work on 5Ghz. Here's one: https://www.amazon.com/Adapter-Wireless-Network-External-OS10-6-10-13/dp/B019SRBUNG